Memorial Online

Often times we get information from families that are not quite sure what to write about on a memorial page. They question whether the memories or stories they remember are really that important or if they will mean anything to anyone else. They question whether the pictures will be used safely and whether others will remember their loved one in the same way they did.

First, every memory of a past family member is important. Don’t worry about whether others will see it as meaningful. If it is meaningful to you, it is worth sharing. It says something about your loved one and about your relationship with them.

Second, the great thing about an online memorial is that other family members can also provide their stories, memories and kind words to give the tribute more meaning and to show just how wide spread your loved one impacted others.

Finally, if you use a quality, safe memorial site that keeps materials confidential if you wish and as protected as you want, you won’t have to worry that anything other than adoration and appreciation will be taken from your memorial site.

Below are some things that are generally included on an online memorial page:

1. Obituary: Families typically post the deceased’s official obituary. This can be the one printed in the newspaper or used and read during the funeral service.
2. Funeral Information: It is often appreciated if the funeral details are posted on the memorial site for others to easily find.
3. Photographs: Sharing photos taken from various stages during your loved one’s life provides a wonderful visual tribute for others.  People often times like to see pictures from major events (weddings, first dances, graduations, etc) in their life but also candid one’s that show them just how they lived. Generally, add pictures that really showcase just who they were.
4. Stories: The greatest memories are those that we keep in our minds and recall periodically.  Sharing those little moments that were special to you in an online forum is a great way to express your appreciation for your loved ones.  Share anecdotes about shopping trips, vacations, major life moments you had with the deceased. Share funny stories that make you laugh.  These help give structure and character to their life story.
5. Sympathies: It is important to not only celebrate a life but also allow those that knew them to grieve. Posting your own notes of sadness or sympathy and allowing others to do the same helps everyone to share in the bereavement and move through their grief.